It is the missing link that makes us lack sufficient confidence because society was not designed specifically to give us that, not to mention the bad habits from parents, teachers, or friends to suppress self-confidence. Naturally, we need that, and, naturally, it is coupled with the most peaceful moments of childhood when the mother, father, or teacher tells us “Well done!” for something good we’ve done.
Write about yourself as a person who deserves and receives appreciation.
Gather facts about this from today or older memories to write about the good qualities you possess. Not everyone may be strong, intelligent, productive, or fit other common definitions of success, but every person can find kindness, good morals, and love for others.
For instance
- My neighbour thanked me twice for carrying her shopping up the stairs. I did it without thinking — that kind of kindness is simply in me, and it deserves a line here.
- A colleague told me my notes saved her hours today. I do careful, patient work, and people notice it.